My husband recently walked in on me having sex with his friend. Instead of getting angry, he joined us and we had a wonderful time. We now indulge in threesomes often and we also started living together. My husband and I enjoy this arrangement, with my husband suggesting that we even replace our bedmate with a tall and handsome man. Our only child is in boarding school. We always use a condom. Should we continue with this?

The decision of indulging in a threesome is yours. Always use a condom. But you, as a couple, must ensure you don’t deprive your child of attention and parental love.

I recently fondled the upper part of my girlfriend’s body. She had her pants on. I did not go anywhere near her vagina. But her periods, which are  on time, are delayed by 10 days this time. Why do you think this is so?

I certainly do not think you have a magician’s wand. So there is no chance of her being pregnant. She must be over anxious.

My partner and I indulged in heavy foreplay. We didn’t have sex but he fingered me while I felt his penis. When he went to the bathroom, he noticed a bit of semen on his penis. I might have touched him and then myself, but there was no penetration. This was six days after my periods began. We later tried having sex with a condom but weren’t able to because it was very painful. Are there any chances of pregnancy?

With all the antics you’ve described, it could be a possibility. However, in this case, I don’t think so.

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